Our resident guy advice guru, T9, breaks down the Top 10 Reasons Why Dudes Fail With Honiez —And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes. Every few days, we will share one of the Top 10 reasons, here’s #7…
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money and Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that attractive chiqs are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some gals who are only interested in these things. But MOST chiqs are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract chiqs like a magnet…And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
You do not have to “settle” for a chiq just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make chiqs feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy gal. This is true. The Looks and Money barrier is just a social construct of your own making. I know lots of guys who aren’t good looking and aren’t rich who get any gal they want, all because they are cool, interesting guys.
For guys, it’s hard to imagine this as being true, because if we see a chiq we don’t find attractive, we don’t want to sleep with her. She could be the coolest chick in the world, but if we can’t get a boner for her, we wouldn’t want to have sex with her. However, the same is not true for gals. Chiqs don’t get boners. They get aroused in different ways, and this is what most guys fail to understand.
When a gal says “Oh, I’m not attracted to short guys,” that’s not necessarily the truth. It just means that short guys don’t make her feel the same way that tall guys do. But if a tall guy were to come along and make her feel the way she wants to, you can bet the barn she’s going to fall for him, despite his height.
It’s all about setting the right frame and having the right beliefs.