T9-CoverOur resident guy advice guru, T9, breaks down the Top 10 Reasons Why Dudes Fail With Honiez —And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes. Every few days, we will share one of the Top 10 reasons, here’s #8…


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look up to a chiq for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to chiqs. Said differently, guys try to get gals to like them by doing whatever the lady wants. Another bad idea…

T9 Player Mistake 8Chiqs are NEVER attracted to guys that they can walk all over… Chiqs aren’t attracted to Wussies!

Part of giving away your power is adopting the chiq’s frame or world view. In short: entering HER reality. When you let the gal you are with control the underlying meaning of the interaction you are having with her, you put yourself in a position where SHE determines what is true and what isn’t. When you ask her questions, you enter her reality deeper and deeper. You give up control.T9 Mistake 8

When you do this, you take away sexual tension, and shuck all responsibility for the relationship. And like I said before, gals do not want that burden. It’s always best to challenge the chiq, get her to qualify to you, and pull back, to the point where SHE is the aggressor, where SHE is pursuing YOU.

Next: MISTAKE #9: Not knowing exactly what to do in each type of situation with chiqs

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