Our resident guy advice guru, T9, breaks down the Top 10 Reasons Why Dudes Fail With Honiez —And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes. Every few days, we will share one of the Top 10 reasons, here’s #2…
What do most guys do when they meet a chic that they REALLY like… but she’s just not interested?
Right! They try to “convince” the gal to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A HONIE “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER!
You cannot CONVINCE a gal to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.
Think about it.
If a chica doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?
But we all do it.
When a honie just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
I think this is a mistake every guy has made during his lifetime. We get so into a girl, and when we find out she doesn’t feel the same way, we try to convince her of all the reasons WHY she should reciprocate our feelings.
Part of the reason this happens is coz most dudes don’t do the groundwork necessary upon the first meeting to evoke those feelings in the lass. That “Sexual Tension” we talked about earlier is not present. The guy has failed to engage the chica on any level other than “trust and comfort.” He has, in essence, failed to seduce her.
I like to think there are ways to turn this situation around, but one thing is for certain, arguing with the girl and trying to explain to her using logic why she should like you will never, ever work.