Our resident guy advice guru, T9, breaks down the Top 10 Reasons Why Dudes Fail With Honiez —And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes. Every few days, we will share one of the Top 10 reasons, here’s #5…
Attractive ladies are rare. And they get a LOT of attention from guys. Most dudes don’t realize this, but attractive gals are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive chiq is often approached several times a day by dudes who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive chiqs have usually dated many guys. That’s right. They have ‘experience’. They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive chiq off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the gal that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.
Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax. There’s a much better way…
Sharing your feelings with a chiq too early on is much like showing your opponent your game play a high stakes rugby match. When you tell a chiq you have strong feelings for her early on, you eliminate the sexual tension that attraction relies on. You take away the uncertainty of “Does he like me or not?” you put her fears and anticipations to rest. In short: You kill the romance, the “chase”.
Not only that, but you exalt her and put yourself in the position of a beggar. Not the place you want to be in. Best to hide your intentions and get her to express her feelings for you, first. Only then is it appropriate to tell her, because then she feels like she’s earned those feelings.