As a lady you always think that dudes go for looks when it comes to dating. well you might be wrong. dudes looks for more than the beautiful shape and figure. Things men like in women often have nothing to do with looks, bra size or any of the standard things we think men fall for. In fact, although physical appearance is the first thing they notice (don’t we all?), when it comes to settling down, looks often come in last and count the least. Believe it or not, there are at least 10 completely non-physical things men like in women and I’m pretty sure your boyfriend could list many more and confirm that your gorgeous physique, beautiful eyes and soft lips are not the only things that made him fall head over heels for you! Interested to learn more about those other things men like in women? Well, read carefully because every man would love to be with a woman who is…
1. A Good Listener
Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care. Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you.” The ability to listen and really hear what’s being said is one of the things dudes like in women because it’s so supportive — and they’re much more likely to reciprocate.
Being able to “go with the flow” is one of the traits dudes like in chiqs the most. Most of dudes would never sing in front of the chiqs but they just love to hear us sing, they love to see us dance around the house, they will gladly throw us a surprise if they know the reaction will be positive and they love to see us being us (even if it involves a certain dose of silliness).
3. A Good Cook
The only way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach – remember that one? Well, we have learned by now that’s not the only way, although it certainly is one of the ways and, if I may add, a very good one. dudes love mamas who can cook.
Dudes love fun loving, girl next door – a girl who likes to smile and doesn’t care what others think of her smile (thin lips, teeth or whatever), a girl who can tell a joke, a girl who doesn’t use “words” like OMG or TTYL, a girl who won’t have a nervous breakdown every time her mascara starts running… a REAL girl!
He really wants to know that you care for him but be careful, because repeating “I love you” until he can’t take it anymore isn’t a good way to let him know how you feel. An average #dude will tell you that he loves you once and show you how much he loves you five times. You should do the same. Baby him when he’s sick or tired, surprise him every once in a while, listen to his problems – SHOW him everything you want to tell him because this quality is one of the very important things men like in women.
A sense of humor is also one of the things dudes like in chiqs. Who wants a boring person. its time to find your funny bone, ladies! Now, I wonder why is that so… are they planning to make a lot of jokes or do they just want to make sure we’re able to find positive or maybe even funny sides in the future events that aren’t guaranteed to be stress free and easy? I don’t know but a sense of humor definitely gets my vote!
7. Taking Care of Herself
Can you believe this is one of the things guys like in ladies? I mean, come on, can it be? They actually LIKE when we spend money on all those creams and beauty products? Well, hold onto your chairs now, ladies, because the experts say the answer is “yes.” Taking care of yourself shows him you’ll take good care of him as well.
One of the best things guys like in ladies, a quality like no other, a virtue that no woman of today could live without – strength. He has to know that there is a strong rock he can grab for under that delicate butterfly facade of yours – a woman he can count on.
9. Natural when It Counts
Just because we like makeup doesn’t mean that we have to wear it all of the time. A guy wants a girl that is going to be natural when it counts — such as going to the swimming pool! A guy loves it when a girl doesn’t take two hours to look perfect when, in his opinion, she is perfect no matter what. He wants a girl that is so confident in herself, she doesn’t need anything but herself.
10. Isn’t Scared to Get down & Dirty
Of course, getting down and dirty is going to be a huge plus to a guy. He wants someone that isn’t going to freak out about a bug or getting their nails dirty. He wants someone that would be down with doing ‘boy’ things and can be tomboyish just sometimes!What else do you think dudes want from ladies apart from their looks?
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