- EXPECTING HER TO PAY
Guys, it’s important to never let money be the reason why you guys can’t have a good time. If you want, wait till you’re ready. But treat her nicely. Leave a great impression. Is that so hard? That’s not a rhetorical question, ask your shoe.
- TAKING HER SOMEWHERE EXPENSIVE
Sure ladies like to be treated to a pretty pricy date, but there’s no need for you to cry at your bank statements soon as you get home. Don’t take her to Villa Rosa, take her for a pretty simple date; a picnic would be perfect or ice cream date would be perfect, for example.
- OVER INVESTING
Over-investing on the first date means that you think she’s amazing, and that makes her uncomfortable. She doesn’t think you’ve earned that yet. In the end, it ends up coming off as desperation for the first attractive lady you meet.
Therefore, over-investing is a huge ‘no no’. Keep calm and you’ll make a greater impression.
- INTERVIEW SESSION
Sure, you can ask questions, but don’t use them as the only source of information. Involve your imagination as well. Instead of asking her what she studied in college, take a guess. Instead of asking her how she felt on her camping trip, tell her it sounds very fun and peaceful. And so on.
- ARGUE ABOUT FACTS
It’s okay to disagree with her; it’s always a plus when she can see that your views are not subjective. But there’s no subjectivity when it comes to facts; it is what it is. You can give your views on the subject but don’t argue about them.
For example, she says he likes oranges; I say oranges are disgusting and apples are the bomb. And keep it playful.
Story: Janiana (Super Intern)
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