Even the coolest peeps in school can be terrible at flirting but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try it. As long as you’ve got your game right, i guarantee you, you wont freeze, sweat and struggle uttering even a wimpy “Hey”.
There’s nothing far much sexier than confidence, believe you me. Your crush will definitely take a notice of you if you exude the confidence typical of her dream crush. However, if you act all shy, she might assume you for another boring nerd who doesn’t deserve her. Your crush will want to get to know more about that confident boy who seems like a big deal around school. Trust me!
Ignore her, but not for too long…
It might look counterintuitive but it actually gives you a better reputation than you think. It also gives you leverage in that you don’t look desperate at all. Let’s say you meet her with her friends or are in a group chat, say hi and kick off the conversation with her friends at first. She will feel a bit left out and out of your league, she will then start feeling the pinch of lacking your attention. Then boom! You give her that attention, she will feel so lucky and happy to finally have your attention.
Master the bump and flatter
This doesn’t necessarily have to be physical, but you can also master this technique in group chats. If you are in the same group, learn how to poke her by let’s say standing against her in a conversation and then later on sliding in her PC to apologize. Be sleek about it though… Or bump into her intentionally at the party/corridor and kickoff the conversation. It’s good to be Jemmo the guy at the corridor for some time haha…
Show that you’re interested about her life
Everyone loves a compliment, and most people love to talk about themselves. If you get a chance to talk to your crush, don’t let it go to waste. Ask them lots of questions about their life and show that you truly are interested. They’ll appreciate how curious you were about them and they’ll def be looking forward to another conversation.
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Flirting before you meet them
Normalize complimenting your crush unexpectedly. Maybe you guys are planning to meet, then you say “I think you should put on the crop top today, it looks good on you, especially on your gram.” It gives you a bonus for them to know that you are actually thinking about them. Plus, if she takes your advice, then that means she lowkey likes you.
NB: Flirting doesn’t have to be sexual!