There are certain times when a dude will show signs of behaviour that don’t quite augur well with a good relationship. Save yourself some heartache down the road, put these dudes in your rear view mirror from the get-go!
Here are 6 types of guys you should drop ASAP!
1. Jamal Jealousy
The hard-core jealous one can be spotted early. He fumes at the kange who smiles at you, and he will tell you that you shouldn’t hug your male BFF. He is also very demanding of your time and wants you to account for every minute that you were out of his sight. You may like the attention at first, but it can turn into a very dangerous situation quickly.
2. Brayo Bully
No, not that kind of bully you pervert 🙂 This ‘Brayo Bully’ thinks it’s funny when he pokes you in your arm so hard that’s there’s a bruise the next day. He also will resort to poking you in the chest during a fuss or grabbing your arm. It’s a sign of escalated violence later. Be on the look out gal.
3. Two-Timing Timo
A loose Satoe comes by, and you won’t get to see him. You ask him what’s up with that, and he retorts it’s a boys day out. Later in the day, you see his closest boy at the shop buying one something! You go to their place and his favourite sneakers and snap-back are there. You know the snap-backs that he can’t be with his boys without. Well, you know the rest of the story. You may be the one, but you aren’t the only one!
4.Joe No Show
He makes plans with you and then doesn’t show up. And he doesn’t call to cancel either or even WhatsApp. What can really make it bad is if you went to the trouble of meeting him out of town. It happens all the time. Then he calls with some lame excuse and you let him back in. If he wasn’t in a REAL life-threatening situation – like he’s calling you from a hospital bed! – leave him behind.
5. Betrayed Bill
His last gal left him for another one, so he is actually mad as hell, but he will try to cover it up. But the minute you disagree with him, he calls you names, he ain’t over it. Run girl run!
6. Jamal Jealousy II
When you share good news, he finds a way to make it lose its shine. For example, you tell him you got a B+ in Chem (last term you had a C-), he responds by saying, “That’s all?” Go celebrate your good grades without him, and find someone who will appreciate you.
Am sure you’ve seen these kind of dudes, so don’t wait for the worst to happen. Run girl run!