We all like to feel loved and be taken care of. But some people are a bit too much. They want you all to themselves and even seeing you near others is cause for a quarrel. It is important to know the kind of person you are getting into a relationship with. The early courting days it may have been all sweet, them asking where you at, wanting to know your pals, taking interest in everything you. Once you are in a relationship however, there is no such thing as you hunging out with other people, especially if other gilrs will be around. Jealous girls are masters at this, they keep their jealousy under wraps until they know you’re too attached to them to leave them so easily. So, better to learn to recognize the jealous types before you’re attached and can’t run away fast enough from the crazy.
1. She has few friends
The jealous types are usually just suspicious of everyone and burn most bridges in their life, not just romantic ones. If your gal doesn’t have many friends, but has many stories about why all her friendships ended, she is probably just not a very trusting or forgiving person in general. And those gals are always jealous partners. They aren’t fans of you going out with others often because, well, they don’t have anybody else to go out with themselves.
2. You can’t mention other women
Your girlfriend’s jealousy makes it impossible to talk about other women in any context. Whether it’s a female schoolmate, a teammate or the same neighbour who is an awesome pal, utter the name of another woman and she immediately puts on her war face.
3. She is always in your face
There is an expression which states ‘out of sight, out of mind’. Since you’re never off her mind, she’s never going to let you out of her sight. This makes it near impossible to live the life of a normal guy, because every move you make is being watched by your partner. This kind of person doesn’t allow you the freedom to live a life apart from being a couple. You can’t grab lunch with friends, go for a game or even to visit pals without answering a list of interrogating questions. This forces you to either answer those questions every single time or lie about your location. Lying is never good in a relationship. Lying every day is toxic.
4. She accuses you of flirting all the time
Guys flirt, even when they don’t really mean to. It’s a natural reaction to being around a chiq. In some instances, dudes are just being nice. It’s got nothing to do with physical attraction. There are just some cases, they’re nice to the opposite sex for no reason. Your jealous girlfriend views every nice gesture as flirting. She analyses everyone. Say you go for a double date with friends, or just a night out in a group, your gal always has something on her mind. She has comments to make about your friends in a relationship. Jealous chiqs are always critical of other relationships and have the most to say about them. If she’s jealous of other relationships, you can be sure she’ll just be the jealous type, because she has signs of being insecure.
5. She doesn’t like your party friends
Pay attention to which of your friends she loves and which she obviously has some issues with. If she doesn’t like your friends who are super social, super liberated and extroverted, it’s probably because she doesn’t want them influencing you to be self-empowered and putting yourself out there too.
6. Monitors all your online profiles and can even go through your phone
If she isn’t constantly calling or texting to get your exact location, she’s checking all of your social pages to find out where you are, what you’re doing and even what you’re thinking. She might not even stop at just checking from the outside — have you changed your passwords lately? Not only doesn’t she trust the real you, she doesn’t trust the cyber you, even if the cyber you is just as honest and trustworthy. No one wants the constant eye of Big Brother — especially if Big Brother is your girlfriend and shares the same laptop.
7. Notice when she is super affectionate
Does she always start putting her hands near you when other gals are present? You may not notice it as a bad thing because you’re just happy for the affection. However, if she gets noticeably more affectionate in front of other chiqs than at other times, she’s probably trying to exert ownership over you or send a message that didn’t need to be sent.
8. She loses her temper easily
Does she lose his temper easily with her family? With servers at a restaurant? With just about everyone except you early on? Eventually, it will be you. Look, every chiq has insecurities. Every gal gets a little worried when you’re hanging out with a hot lady friend. The difference between them and the jealous types is that they don’t say anything about it. Why? Because they know how to think before they speak. A chiq who loses her temper will have no problem eventually saying, “I don’t want you hanging out with __.” Because she can’t hold her tongue.
At the end of the day, remember this, Jealousy is an ugly emotion. It involves negative thoughts and damaging feelings of insecurity, anxiety, fear, resentment. It occurs when a person anticipates a loss of something of great personal value; in this case, you are the thing of great personal value. This person just doesn’t want to lose you, but shows it in a bad way.