Most Chiqas love a dude with a sense of humor. In fact, it’s a trait that consistently ranks in the top three in most polls about the traits chiqs love in dude. If you want to impress her with this trait, take her to a comedy club or watch a funny movie together. Tell it to your crush or girlfriend and make her laugh! There are a few things to keep in mind, however. Not all mamas enjoy the same kind of humor. If you have an offensive joke, it’s best to hold off until you know she is okay with that style of humor. One wrong joke and you could be out the door!. Look for someone who has your own humor. It will make getting along much easier!
Treat those around you with respect and she’ll see that you’re the dude she wants to be with. While you can still have traits like sarcasm and wit, a little kindness in a relationship will go a long way. Overly nice can be a turn off, as some mamas still like the ‘bad-boy’ mentality from time to time. Still, showing respect to others and treating her as your equal is something that she will not overlook.
This might sound like an obvious trait, but most dudes overlook the fact that mamas love a man who knows what he’s doing. Even if you’re not the next Einstein, you still have something that you’re good at. Some women prefer book smarts, while other women love a man who knows what he is doing outside. Take charge of the situation and use your problem-solving skills to impress her.
Dudes are not known to be the best listeners, as studies have shown. In general, chiqs are better listeners, leaving some dudes clueless in this department. Keep in mind that listening skills will go a long way in a relationship! If you don’t know what to say when she’s talking about her day, simply tell her that you care for her and that you hope everything turns out okay in whatever situation she is facing. Take time to listen to her stories and make sure she knows that you’re there for her.
5. Taking Care of Your-self
Not all dudes have six pack abs and ladies understand that. Still, keeping up with your appearance is important. If you let yourself go, your girlfriend could very easily turn to someone else who is keeping up with their appearance. Make sure that you are well-groomed and wear cologne that she finds appealing. Avoid the scruffy look, unless that’s what she prefers. She wants to take you out in public and show you off sometimes, so make sure you look your best for her.