cock blocking girlI received an interesting email the other day from a guy wanting to get to the bottom of why this girl he’s been flirting with is always so willing be taken away by her c**k blocking friend.

Hey T9,
Got a bit of a problem and not sure how to approach it, so need your help. I’m a 2nd year student in university, and I’ve known this girl for the past 2 months, we became friends through my brother who’s the same age as me. Anyway, we see each other occasionally in the hood and at the club as we’re out in similar age/social groups. But… this is where the annoying thing happens. Every time I try and get close to her, kiss her or isolate her in anyway her fat friend c**k blocks me.
It’s happened at least 5 times now (no joke). We’re hanging out, chilling and just laughing together then out of nowhere, bam! The rotund friend steals her away, gives me the evil eyes and they go off together.
What can I do to remove this c**k block from the equation so I can finally get with this girl?
Thanks,
Ricky R

Cock Blocker

‘Sup Ricky,

Ok, sounds like a typical c**k block to me. This flubby girl is most likely her best friend with an agenda, because she’s not hot she’s doing everything she can to stop her friend from being happy, so steals her away when things start to heat up.

Is the plumb girl just c**k blocking the girl you like or is she like the mother hen of the group? Either way you need to try and befriend her. I know that may be the last thing you want to do, but this friend may have a mental hold over the girl you like because she sees her all the time. I suggest you get a wingman who can take down the chubby chic so that it gives you more chance to remove the girl you like from the group, isolate her and build some rapport.

It’s important that you become likeable to everyone in her circle of friends. If you see them out in the hood or at the party, be sociable, fun and friendly… introduce them to cool guys, be the go to guy in that circle, then the girl you like will see you as a cool and attractive guy, social proof will takeover here.

If her friend easily steals her away from you mid-conversation, then you’re game isn’t strong enough. You’re giving off a weak vibe that the friend is picking up on. You have to lead the girl to where you want her to go and take her hand when you do it. Make her understand that although you’ve seen each other a bunch of times, you are by no means “just good friends”. You want to rule out the chances of being friend-zoned.

That’s it dude! Good luck and let me know how you get on.

Source: PUA Training