So the past few weeks, fearless and straightforward blogger and writer, Njoki Chege, gave women another reason to hate on one of their own when she put on paper what everyone talks about but is not bold enough to put in black and white.
I did come across those articles in the internet but I decided not to take it personally, I have to have also tried so much to brush off the idea that lazy equals to being fat… Who said so? People took it to another level and I decided that I will join in the conversation and give Njoki a few facts right.
Before I write anything in relation to my views and opinions towards your easy write up Njoki Chege, I would love to notify you that Sexiness is an attitude, not defined by the clothes that one’s wears… get that right before deciding to bully plus size women. They maybe an easy target for you or anybody out there who may have the thought of tampering around with their self esteem due to their weight.
As a woman, I have been taught the beauty of chasing long term goals. Trying hard to look right for a “Mr. Right” or whoever he might be is basically one of the things I give a NO NO NO! Earthquakes just happen. Tornadoes just happen. Your tongue does not just happen to fall into some other girls mouth! A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
There is no level of attractiveness that can guarantee anybody they cannot be cheated on. Be it that you may be short, tall, and thin, plum black or yellow there men who have cheated on these beautiful ladies. It is a matter of being with a man who values principles. Life is too short to sit around worrying about meeting unrealistic goals, what is fat anyway?
The “Mr. Right” is out there living his dreams and achieving his goals while you’re busy ranting about a Waistline? Come on. Focus on achieving your goals too and leave the crap about what njoki chege has to say or write about plus size women. After all it’s her job, to write. That’s how she earns her living. Empty debes make the most noise. Am sure she can attest to that.
Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Do not look for approval from anybody about how you look or what they think you should look like.
No apologies whatsoever.